Is Your Child Ready To Be Potty Trained?

Surely there must be a set time when you should start potty training your child. Unfortunately this varies from child to child.

Well, as they say, if I knew the answer to this question and I could apply it to every child, I'd be rich! The simple answer is there no simple answer that can be applied universally. However, based on our extensive research and experience we can offer the following advice and tips.

The majority of clinical research studies suggest that you can expect that a normal, healthy toddler should be ready for potty training between the ages of 18 and 27 months (some girls may even be ready as early as 16 months) but that development signals are far more accurate predictors than chronological age. Here are some helpful guidelines that will help you identify when it is time to begin potty training.

1. You shouldn't wait until your son or daughter asks to use the potty (they may be teenagers before this happens :>)

2. Language abilities have little, or nothing, to do with effective toilet training, and

3. If you're waiting for your two-year-old to become less "stubborn", they may be wearing diapers for a very long time!

Pediatricians have also identified other readiness indicators. Your toddler is probably ready for potty training if they:

1. Imitate others - especially Mom or Dad

2. Get frustrated when something, or somebody, is out of place. For example, you might hear them say, "No, Daddy! That goes here!"

3. Try to undress themselves

4. Seem proud of their accomplishments

5. Appear curious about the toilet and genitals - theirs and yours

6. Talk about pee pee and/or poo poo (or poop)

7. Display awareness when pee pee and poo poo are an occurence - especially just before the fact

Additionally, if your toddler is able to sleep though the night without wetting his/her pants it's a good indication that they're ready.

Remember there is no science to when the best time to start potty training might be. You need to observe your child and begin when your child shows enough signs they are ready.

TIP: If your toddler is still taking a bottle or cup to bed with them or they're in the habit of drinking right before bed, you may still be waking up to wet diapers - even though they may actually be ready for toilet training. If this is the case, you'll need to run a small test. Stop giving them any liquids 2-3 hours before bed (Yes, it means they'll have to forgo that bottle). Then make sure to change their diaper right before you put them down. This will make it easier for them to stay dry through out the night and allow for a more accurate assessment. Remember however, to check your toddler's diapers right away when they wake up!

Potty Training Tips For Boys Now that you've determined that your child is indeed ready let's continue …

How do I know if I'm Ready?

Thanks for asking such a great question! As you probably already know, success with anything requires planning, determination, commitment and work. It is no different in this case.

There are a number of methods for potty training your child but we advise that you choose one that is designed to significantly compress your child's learning time and ensure that the journey is a joyful one - for both of you. And that's exactly what will happen if you're ready.

So before you begin make sure you're ready to:

1. Commit to continuing the entire process even when you don't think you're making any progress whatsoever… (and trust me, in the beginning you'll have your doubts!)

2. Prepare properly in advance - The preparation process should not be onerous or expensive so this shouldn't be a problem

3. Believe that toilet training your toddler will be a joyful celebration of an important milestone, not a headache… no matter what your friends and family tell you

4. Devote at least two full days (even though in most cases, tots really begin to get the hang of it early in the evening on the first day) to working with your toddler. Many of our clients prefer weekends - a fine time to begin (unless there are too many distractions). This means no distractions, no shopping, no cleaning, no car pooling… If you have other toddlers, it's a great idea to get a babysitter or let them spend a day with grandparents or friends.

5. Go it alone - This works best with one person teaching… preferably a parent and the child. That's it. Consistency is a key element and that is best achieved using one teacher and few distractions.

Remember, toddlers have an innate desire for independence! No matter how stubborn your two-year-old is… they WANT to use the potty! Good luck!